Dear Beloved Community,
Why Spend a Month Talking About Lament?
This month our theme is Lament. By lament, I mean the practice of crying out honestly to God in our grief, anger, and pain. Lament means naming what is broken and pleading for God’s presence and action. Some may wonder why I am choosing to focus on something so heavy? Many don't think we should complain or challenge God. They view faith as all about joy, praise, and good news.
The truth is, lament is one of the most central practices of faith in the Bible, and I believe one of the most neglected in Christianity today. In our Jewish ancestral roots, lament was never hidden away. More than a third of the Psalms are filled with cries of grief and protest. The book of Lamentations gives us poetry to name devastation after Jerusalem’s destruction. The prophets cried out in anguish on behalf of the people. Even Jesus lamented on the cross: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”
Yet in much of the church, lament has been pushed aside. We are quick to celebrate, but slow to grieve. We prefer triumphal hymns to honest prayers of pain. By ignoring lament, we lose the language of truth-telling before God. We silence the cries of the suffering. And we offer a shallow hope that rings false in a hurting world.
I chose this theme because I believe lament is essential to our faith. It gives us permission to bring our full selves before God, whether that means expressing sorrow, anger, or fear. Lament grounds us in honesty, builds solidarity with those who suffer, and ultimately opens us to a deeper hope: a hope born not from denial, but from God’s steadfast love that meets us in our pain.
This month, we will practice lament as a spiritual discipline. Together we’ll discover that lament is not the end of faith. It is often the beginning of healing.
Blessings,
Pastor Brian